Hey Anita,

I do know his routines very well. He is all work and very focused on his job. He travels quite a bit for this job as well and he has always said he was concerned that he wouldn’t be able to make me happy in his world because of his job.

It’s very difficult for him to bring people into his life. When we first met, he went silent on me for 2 weeks and then I received a message out of nowhere that he couldn’t stop thinking about me try as he did. He is an over thinker and needs to play out every scenario in his head a million times before he commits to something. I feel he is introverted around women.
I know his divorce and break up was much worse than mine and he never wants to make those same mistakes again. I feel like that is playing a huge part in all his hesitation.

Now mind you, I’m definitely not sitting at home every night waiting for this man to make up his mind. I’m not that woman because we do have an ocean between us and until I know exactly where he’s at that’s just how it’s going to be. I would never put my world on hold for someone if I didn’t know exactly where they were at and if we were even on the same page.