Dear IMBACK:

I didn’t notice that you posted again when I submitted the above.

“I’m afraid that I will end up hurting her again and I think that I have convinced my brain that I don’t have feelings for her“- you are making a good point here about her getting hurt by you losing feelings for her (however temporarily), again and again, and telling her about it: this is not good for her emotional health…!

“Could it be that I have just lost feelings?”– yes, temporarily. No one, no person in the whole wide world, feels love for another person every minute, every hour, during all their waking hours. it’s normal to sometimes have no feelings for a person you love.

anita