Hi Anita,

Sorry for my late response.

“Finally have someone else to be the strong one…. So that I can relax” – in one sentence, this is all I want. You really understood where I’m coming from.

Whatever you told about my childhood makes so much sense! I can connect a lot of dots – It was always easy for me to connect with girls 6-10 years elder to me and I could maintain good friendships with them. Even with friends, I am always trying to take care of them and be the bigger person. I’m seriously tired but I feel like I don’t know how else to be – I don’t know how to just have fun and be like all other girls!

Thank you for sharing your story, I empathize with you for going through something similar with your mother – I did go through your previous posts and I’m sorry you had to go through something like that at a very young age. I am happy and proud of you that you’re healing and going in the right direction. More power to support to you 🌸