Dear Anita,

Thank you so much for still remember me.
I loved to talk with you again.
yes my child 3 years old now, and mariage age 5 years.

Thank you for the Empathy. I just realize, maybe Dona’s love language is Quality time. because she love a lot to be together.
in the other side, my husband doesn’t comfortable with her. because she sometimes talk unpleasant things.
i feel bad also because she lost her husband because of covid. i want to visit her, but i can’t. i know this may seem like a reason i made. but i don’t know why in my heart and thoughts is complicated.

she said that i will show up if only there is a problem or issues.. and she write down all of her effort to meet me. in the other side, i think she didn’t remember that i have an effort too..

“did her parents or Dona accuse you of not being grateful to them? What kind of communication have you had with her parents in the last few years and recently?” -> i think they are.. lately i have a few communication with them. i didn’t really close to them.. just in special case like birthday, i give them greetings..

I think this become more emotionally and make me overthinking also.. this relationship become not really comfortable i think..

Thank you,
Tania