Dear Jessy:

You are very welcome.

“Just to be clear are you suggesting he is approaching again just for sexual curiosity now that he is more confident? (btw he did have a sexual experience with me)“- I wouldn’t know if he has been approaching you just for sexual curiosity, but it’s part of it, obviously (the sexual text he sent you). As far as his intents otherwise, I wish I knew. The person to get this information from is.. him. Honest, effective communication with him is the answer!

* Maybe there are clues to his intents in the light conversations he’s been engaging with you lately. I wonder if he shared with you how he is spending his time,  if he has friends, etc.

“also on the questions yes I’m thinking about maybe opening up a conversation again on messenger to get to know his chain of thoughts, life, etc.”– this would be excellent for the purpose of information gathering.

If you need my help with wording  questions for him, when you are ready to ask him questions, let me know.

anita