Hi Gresshoppe

Did you know that sexting is a very common dating behaviour these days. For most people they don’t find it wrong especially when they have been having sex with the person. I would suggest moving forward that you are very clear about your preference for no sexting ever from the outset. You may have to explain to people why you don’t like it because they may mistake I don’t like this for I don’t want this right now.

It’s fair to end it with him because this is not the kind of relationship that you want. I don’t think he did anything bad because these are very common dating behaviours these days. Just that you have different values and that you don’t believe that you are compatible. Which is honestly fair.