Dear Sunny:

“The fight we had was about surprises and gift giving. He kept saying he did not know what I wanted as a gift and that I never tell him anything which was incorrect. There are a few things I wanted and I shared that with him multiple times so when he told me I never tell him anything I became a bit frustrated because to me it felt like he was not listening to what I was saying all those times of me saying I want something. That is what started the argument between us. It turns out he was only saying that to throw me off but I wasn’t aware of that“-

– I want to understand this fight better, by throwing you off, what do you mean?

Also, you told him many times and specifically what you want for a gift and he forgot that you did, or lied and said that you didn’t tell him?

anita