A man normally would want a woman who has not had a lot of sexual partners. Who is available to them to talk and hold. That the woman he loves shows that she is on his side and listens to him. That she will work with him to achieve their common goals. After arguments, he always apologized. He always had to give in. After a while, this will weigh heavy on his mind. There will come a time when he feels that as long as he isn’t married to you that he should end the frustration and the fights with you. Fights do not add to the love.

A man is a visual being and a beautiful woman is always attractive to him. It doesn’t mean he will leave you for them. It does mean he was attracted to you until something snapped and he could not handle the situation with you. It would not matter if you were of his culture or if you were prettier. What matters is how you interact with this man. If you bring love and show caring in the thing you do then he’d be happy to stay in your arms. But, if you always have something to say about him or his ways then it will affect him negatively. Fights especially.

Now you are feeling the loss. It may never go away. Or you could forget about it tomorrow. It all depends on the next situation, the next boy in your life. You can not be thinking of him if there is another man in your arms. I guess what matters now is how you hold yourself up. If your thought stay on him then you will not move on. If your thoughts are about how to do the things you need to get done in your life then it will. Plant an apple seed and nurture it then an apple tree will grow.