Hi Laven

I’m so sorry to hear about the difficulties with your foster family, as well as the verbal abuse that you endure. It must be difficult being a care giver in that situation.

I was informally adopted and experienced similar difficulties with my adopted family. It’s really hard isn’t it? What has been hard for me is feeling that you’re never accepted. Do you have difficulties with feeling like this too?

To me, you sound like a good woman doing her best against all of the odds. You don’t deserve the way you are being treat. You deserve to be loved and appreciated for who you are as well as the things you do. It sounds like you lost that feeling when your partner left. Would you agree? I’m sorry that your heartbreak continues.

Do you feel like if you didn’t care for your foster mom no one else would and something bad would happen to her?

It sounds like your foster mom has had these difficulties with verbal abuse towards you for a long time? I would agree that it’s not because she’s old.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏