Hi Alex

It’s good to hear that she enjoys her experiences with you.

Well sexual conversations for her are a very large part of her life. Not talking about it is asking her to hide who she is from you.

I can understand the discomfort with everything. I would think of it in this way. She was sexually assaulted as a child. It is common for sexual assault survivors to subject themselves to difficult sexual experiences afterwards.

My husband had a pornography addiction. He talks about it sometimes and it did make me feel uncomfortable. But it was also a big part of his life for a long time. I didn’t want him to feel ashamed of it. Perhaps she doesn’t want to hide who she is from you or to feel ashamed of it. If her past experiences are too much for you, perhaps she isn’t the right person for you.

We all have experiences and hers are unusual. But I’m sure that you can have empathy for the difficulties that she has had.

Wishing you all the best! ❤️🙏