Dear Renn

It is possible to feel whole complete and lovable without being in a relationship. A relationship should compliment your life, nurturing with out being stifled, fun with some depth of meaning & room for give and take.

To find out what your heart, head & gut are trying to tell you find a quiet relaxing safe space close your eyes take some deep slow calming breaths and imagine yourself in five years time ie your job where your living, hobbies etc  be aware how you are feeling are your hands open or closed is your face relaxed & smiling?    and then add in your bf into the mix, note now how your body feels, if it is shrinking or tensing  or bracing itself in anyway then it is probably time to draw a line on this relationship.

Best wishes

Roberta