I am looking for solutions here. There is a maid for 2 hours daily, but she prefers to cook by herself. Other household work is managed by both where I help her out. I have long working hours, but I do help on weekends and at night.

I have also presented her with options such as having 2 more maids or 1 full-time maid for which she has denied.

She feels that there is not much to do for the two of us and life is ok with one maid available.

Time isn’t the constraint here, discipline is. Food and exercise needs to be the solution, which is in her hands totally.

People with travel, domestic responsibilities and kids do maintain a fit body. Time is just an excuse (That isn’t an excuse in our case.)

I have realized that determination and discipline is needed. If she can’t respect her own physical health, there is little that can be expected otherwise.

I am looking at how detachment or changing my perspective will help me live better.