Hello Helcat,

Let me get back to your questions.

We kind of went through a lot of discussions before we reached to this temporary break. We agreed to review this a month later.

I think somehow, i proposed this initially but we decided it it too much, we tried for around a month but eventually we feel we had a bit too much negativity, and we decided to take a break. I asked about the time frame, and whether we completely not contacted, and she said a month and may be not contacting is best, as we had some expectation mismatch(i expected her this, and she expected me that) while we were trying

i don’t think culturally it is that bad, I live in Hong Kong, so it is not THAT bad in here being gay. Just that being a chinese, there are still taboo etc which makes it harder for gay couples.

I keep telling me that she will honour our agreement, while deep down I have a lot of insecurity bubbling.

I can expect this will be a difficult month

Best wishes

Chau