hi all,

Thanks for reading my story and sharing your story. I have heard a lot of perspectives and I appreacite each and everyone of yours. But one thing that I find most true is we all come from various backgrounds, with our own assumption and our own strength and challenges, and so the stories and perspectives that come out can be vastly different.

I am still holding on to the belief that she is using this time to calm down and break some of our negative patterns. In my mind, I am imaging more towards we will reconcile, but  not break up. But of course that is just something in my imagination now. But sometime I would also wonder why she didn’t text me after a whole week, while I opened that option(the imagination goes on and on)

I think most of the friends think this is a very cruel way to figure out a relationship, While one on hand i think yes this is very torturing, on the other hand I feel this is what is meant by ‘together’, if she has a down time, I am with her until she is up again. Or until we separate

For me for now, we are still together so I am still hanging on. I think I know the ‘why'(to be in this with her together because I am committed to it and I love her), so I am doing the ‘how'(know that i have to find ways to let her have the space)

This may sounds totally stupid to some, but I guess that’s what I am thinking now

Anyhow, going to jog today, as promised, the daily exercies

Thanks for all the feedback again

Chau