Hi Omyk

Thank you for your kindness. Congratulations on being a minister for 25 years! You are very open minded, your community is lucky to have you.

I see, well at least the rules are very clear so you don’t really need to worry about dating.

I can understand people worrying about you and wanting you to be happy. But you are right it is complicated as a minister and it is really deciding between the life you have lead as a spiritual leader and choosing a more traditional lifestyle.

This is a massive decision and one that will take a lot of time to consider. You don’t have to worry about it right now. It sounds like you are making the right decision for you now keeping things as they are.

It sounds like people in your personal life who have been making comments aren’t really focused on you. They are giving very default advice. Sometimes when bad things happen they don’t know what to say. Or they are suggesting what they might do. It isn’t really a reflection on you.

If you look at the situation from a different perspective and understand the content of their advice isn’t important. It is just the sentiment that they want you and your child to be happy and care is all that is important. As long as you and your child are content, they ultimately won’t care what you choose.

You are right, you do have a lot on your plate already. I wish you luck in parenting and navigating the difficulties with your job.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏