Hello,

I am posting after a while. I took some space from my boyfriend and we keep talking and fighting once in a while.

There is something that bothers me a lot – Why does my boyfriend put up with everything? Since the beginning of the relationship, we had a lot of ups and downs and I keep telling him I’m confused and I point out reasons saying he is not very social, not very spiritual, etc… I am still confused and I keep suggesting that he needs to change some things about him. Why does he put up with it? Why doesn’t he ever say “I don’t need this in my life, you can be with me if you want to or no”. He always says I am trying to work on this, work on that, etc… why?

Recently I was catching up with a friend and was sharing with her how my relationship was going on and she pointed out this – since the beginning of the relationship whenever we catch up I am always telling her “there is something missing and the reason is him and it bothers me that he does not fight back or puts up with it” and in that minute, I knew it bothers me too – he is too good to be true. If I was in his position, I don’t think I would have put up with this behaviour. Why does he want me sooooo badly? It bothers me