Dear Lola:

It is Tues night here and I would like to thoroughly read your post and reply Wed morning. But for now, I was wondering regarding the beginning of your post: “I recently quit a great job. I had no choice but to quit, my boss was flirting with me on our Xmas party, he was arm in arm with me, gave me a long hug before I got into the cab staring into my eyes and telling me I am doing great and he was so happy with me“-

– is it possible that after a few alcoholic drinks during the Xmas party (if drinking was involved; it most often is), like many tipsy people, he became the.. loving-kind of (bit) of a drunk, not flirty, just loving/ affectionate, something that can or should be forgiven?

I am asking because sometimes when I am tipsy, I feel this child-like love for people (men and women), nothing flirty, I assure you!

anita