Dear Lily-Mae:

“He treated me like trash, and now he treats her like a Princess. He told me he does not want children, now she has a child. What is wrong with me that I was not good enough? Why was I treated badly and not her?“- you don’t know what happens behind closed doors. He may be cruel to her too. She may be cruel to him too.

I don’t think a man so cruel to one woman, can be loving to another. His cruel, degrading behavior is not an indication of who you are. It is an indication of him not having a heart.

I would like to respond further to you tomorrow. If you’d like to respond to the replies you received, please do.

anita