Dear YounMufasa:

“Anita, thanks for telling me the meaning of Mufasa’s name. I included it because…  I admire his traits (which I think are similar to mine). He treats every creature in his kingdom, from ants to elephants, with the utmost respect they deserve… Tinder and Bumble give us so many choices, but I think they’re also taking a hit on my already low self-esteem. I’m not that bad… I only got one match. She was…  just.. meh vibes“- you are welcome! Notice: you admire Mufasa for having the same high esteem for every creature in his kingdom, yet you have less esteem for yourself than you do for other men (and you have less/ meh esteem for some women than for others).

“I started online language classes more than a week ago, and the teacher is quite friendly. I like her. We even engage in light flirting sometimes. Today though, during class, I heard a man’s voice in the background…Why am I getting jealous over something silly like this?“- maybe because you feel inferior to other men, including the man you heard in the background?

I suffered from a low self-esteem most of my life and it was devastating for me . Maybe it will help if you look into it more, share about it more.?

anita