Dear Laven

I am sorry that the people that you reached out to are so shallow and uncompassionate. Many people do not discern the difference between a hug and a cuddle which leads to confusion between the participants. I hope that you find some huggy people in your area, some churches encourage hugging your neighbours at the end of the service. Non sexual touch is so important to our well-being it helps us feel connected. An immediate comfort is to mindfully treat yourself to a hand massage at home using your favourite scented moisturising cream. Your left hand giving comfort & appreciation to your right and vice versa.

Big hugs Roberta