[quote quote=436646]Dear Lily-Mae: I am so sorry for the rude and very inappropriate reply by the member Tommy. This is not his first rude reply, but it’s his first rude reply to an OP (original poster) who expressed suicidal thoughts, so his inappropriateness has arrived at a new low. I am very disturbed by this and I just emailed the website owner a message about what happened here. I will reply to you further, Lily-Mae. Again, I am sorry. anita[/quote]

Thank you Anita for showing me that I was wrong to reply to a suicidal person. My post has since been removed. It was not my intention to press her suicidal mood. Sorry. But, I do believe that she had all the signs that this was not a good relationship and yet she pressed forward with it. It was a poor choice. Just like my choice of words.

I found myself on the edge of a razor. Looking at her actions and listening to her words. Neither made any sense in light of the other. She definitely needs professional help. I am sorry for my ability to see both sides of an argument. Lily-Mae obviously doesn’t deserve to be treated so harshly. And yet, by her own words, she tells how bad a relationship it was. If you feel the need, then you can ask that I be banned from this website. But, I will continue to add my two cents cause life isn’t just one sided. Live long and prosper.

Lily-mae, if you are reading this then I hope you get the help you really need to recover and live a better life.