Hi Carol

Congratulations on your wedding! My condolences for your miscarriage.

I’m sorry that your aunt was being difficult. The way I think about weddings is that it is about the happy couple. It’s not hard to put aside your own things for the day and make an effort to bring joy to a special day.

Sadly, this didn’t happen for you which is such a shame! It’s not uncommon for family to try and make things about them.

I’m sure that she cares, especially considering the gift. But as Roberta said some people get weird at weddings.

You do have every right to feel as you do! I’d be annoyed too.

My mother is a professional wedding card maker and phoned it in for my stationary so badly that I ended up making it myself in a rush (I used to help her with it back in the day, so I still remember a thing or two). It is disappointing and stressful when these things happen.

I hope that you enjoy your newly married life! 😊

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏