Hi Seaturtle

Haha carrier pidgeon might be faster 😂

I’m planning on working in IT.

You must give me some potty training tips! I got a little glimpse of it when he was sick and we had to collect a urine sample. He kept peeing the second I looked away.

Thank you for your kind words! I hope that we get through it too. ❤️

I’m sorry to hear that things are difficult with the child’s parents separating.

I haven’t read it but will definitely check it out.

That’s a very positive way of looking at things. 😊

The unknown is difficult because you don’t know what is going to happen. Sometimes that is harder than knowing. I think that you should trust your intuition. You made the decision using your intuition, so it was the right one.

I can see why you think of automatic as on autopilot. But that isn’t what I meant. There is a concept in teaching. You know the things you know. You know some things that you don’t know. And then you don’t know some things that you don’t know. These are called unknown unknowns. It’s this idea of unknown unknowns that I tend to think of as running on automatic. To change first there needs to be understanding. So it’s really hard to change what you don’t know needs to be changed. If that makes sense? Only when we become aware of a possibility can we work on it.

I don’t necessarily think that one window is better than the other. Life offers us different opportunities. Sometimes we have more time to devote to self development in certain areas. Sometimes we have to focus on specific things. Sometimes we have less time. Sometimes you just get to the point where you acknowledge that perhaps a dislike of self can drive personal development and you decide that it is important to finally accept who you are.

Ultimately, I have faith that things work out the way they are supposed to.

I can understand not wanting to miss out on an opportunity. He also seemed really nice and you felt seen by him. You are also adventurous. It is understandable to be tempted and conflicted about the decision. Ultimately, your intuition is what should guide you in this decision.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏