Hi Anita

Please don’t worry. I’m not upset. You haven’t done anything wrong. You have been kind and helpful. I understood what you meant about to be human is to make mistakes that hurt other people. It is very kind of you to make sure that I understood though. I appreciate that because I can take things literally.

You never hurt your mother Anita. I’m so sorry she did all of those horrible things. She was a monster. It was all in her head.

You are free to write anything you want here. I don’t mind you sharing your experiences.

Yes, pleasing our parents is the impossible struggle.

I don’t think that she tried to protect herself from you. It might have been what she said but the only person she was fighting was herself and you bore the brunt of that. She abused you horribly because of imaginary slights that never existed.

Yes, I’m sorry for all of the abused children too. Thank you for your kind regards.

Love and best wishes to you, always!