Hi Anita

I’m glad to hear that you got some sleep, but it is a shame that it was not as much as you needed. Is there anything on your mind that you would like to talk about?

I thought your point about people communicating in a way that reflects worthiness and lovability being essential was very insightful.

I do agree. Some things try and discredit the impact of others on our happiness and suggest that we need to take responsibility for our own happiness. Whilst needing to take responsibility of our own self-care is a good idea and very healthy, it doesn’t change the fact that close relationships (romantic or not) impact happiness very strongly.

It is difficult because we are trying to work on things. I can’t try to work on things whilst grieving. I have to let go of fear of the future and anger of how things got to this point.

You are right though about trust in his love. It is going to take time for things to work out, one way or the other.

I think that love is a choice especially when things are hard. It has to be chosen over and over again.

Don’t worry. Now that the vet visits have calmed down I am back to the baby classes. We do visit friends and my sister. So I do talk to some adults.

We just got some bad news. One of our friends is in hospital. Our thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.

Thank you so much for your kindness and support. Your acrostic is very touching! I hope you don’t mind, I made one for you too.

Altruistic

Nurturing

Insightful

Thoughtful

Authentic

Love and best wishes, always! ❤️🙏