Hi Mypast

I understand that you have an emotional bonding with your friend. That is great and awesome 🙂

Why is it hard for you to understand that the girl doesn’t reciprocate your feelings ? She is with another guy. Leave her alone or be with her like a friend. If she wanted to be with you romantically in the first place, you wouldn’t be in this mess.

Girls are not things. They are humans with feelings and they can choose whoever they wish to be with. She has chosen the other guy for the moment. You should respect that if you truly love this girl.

Solution for you: Appreciate that you are in love with someone who may be in love with someone else. Respect that. Respect yourself for letting her go and focus on your life and studies. Start with 20 mins on a book, then take a few mins off to do whatever you need to do but come back to another chapter within 10 mins. Keep the cycle going for atleast 3-4 times and hey, you will be done with some study during that day. Be nice to yourself, my friend.

And I strongly believe in one thing: Some things are just meant to be and they come into our lives to make us stronger and better. Learn the lessons and move on. If she is meant to be yours, she will come back to you eventually. I personally wouldn’t want to spend a life with such a girl but that’s me. I have had an emotional bonding with many of childhood friends for years and still do but that doesn’t mean, my romantic life will be spent with them too.

To make it easier for you – I met my partner during an internship in a random café. Call it fate or destiny, but despite all odds, we were married within a few months and still are after so many years. My respect for him grows every day as he is such a divine soul. He lets me be ME and brings out the best in all of my actions. I couldn’t have asked for a better mate. So moral of the story: Life only gets better if you let it be, my friend. If you hang on to it too tightly, it becomes suffocating for everyone including yourself. Trust Universe to provide for your every desire when the time is right.

Let go, Breathe and go back to studies.

You will be in my prayers tonight.

Jasmine