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Hey Jefferson,
First please you need to calm down and be more positive and have a high esteem about yourself.
Im really sorry about your situation in your family and of course with your Gf…
Did you read the entire converstation of mine with the other friends here? You have tried to make your relationship work but still she is not with you right? She may love you now and forever but in this kind of situation i think that would be better to let her go for a period. What she did,to block you from fb and change the number for me its a little bit immature(sorry to say that) Maybe she did this because she is angry or maybe she find this way to go away because she knows you love her very much and she knows you are going to say that by messages or phone calls ect. Please try to not be weak and whats more important dont be in front of her because you will lose the chance to come back with her(if in the future) Try to respect her desicion,think that you have done everything you could but dont tread on yourself. See,when i broke up with my boyfriend and he says to me all those bad words,inside of me i was just crushed but in front of him i tried not to cry too much and be diplomat.He gave up on me too but what can i do? IF you force things everything will be worst,BELIEVE ME!!!!
What you should do? hmmm,thats a very delicate question…1.DO NOT CONTACT HER(PLEASEEE DO THAT)
2. DO NOT ASK ABOUT HER 3. FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE,SCHOOL,FRIENDS,FAMILY.
When did you broke up with her??
Courage,you are young,you will have other chances to meet the right person.
In my first experience(your age) i have a 3 years relationship,i considered him love of my life the first and the last man but it turns out that he wasnt…He cheated on me,my friend told me that and do you know what i did??? we broke up by phone,i wished him all the best and neveeeeeeer contacted him. And do you know what happened? after a year he came to meet me,to see me though he was engaged with the same girl he cheated on me. He apologized and asked for a second chance but it was too late because i didnt feel nothing and i laughed because i knew that this would happened.So,you should do the same,LET HER GO AND MOVE ON,TIME HEALS EVERYTHING AND YOU ARE A VERY YOUNG BOY TO DESTROY YOURSELF
.I know you are broken hearted and maybe my advices will not help you but if she moved on and found a new boyfriend what are you waiting for???