Hey Chelsea,

Gavin’s point is definitely right. I have faced a similar issue a while ago and here are my two cents-

No relationship is about being together all the time. We all have our things to do and they make us who we are. Your boyfriend has quite a hectic schedule but he wants to be with you nonetheless. Be patient with yourself and especially with him. He needs his sources of relaxation as well. Dont read it as neglecting your needs.

If you had a schedule that demanded a great deal of time and made you tired, would you be in a super perky and warm mood? Usually not until you get some time off to relax a bit. Thats why he needs his time to have some fun but he definitely loves you. The only way you can bring balance is by getting more busy in what you love, talking about your needs while considering his state of mind as well.

Enjoy your time alone and learn to find your own happiness outside him. The only way we can really take in love without hesitation is by actually filling up ourselves with love and compassion. If two people in love are happy with themselves and with eachother, thats when the magic happens 🙂

– Moon