Suze,

Sometimes, it does seem as if chaos has control of our lives. However, all control is an illusion and our harmony is always attainable. Also, because every situation is unique, only WE can ever know best how to remedy our own complications. Since I am not as capable as others, I find that writing down (all) my issues and their pros and cons greatly help. After I do so, I regard which route(s) will offer me the most contentment.

I hope this helps.

Al