@tinyzebra – it’s certainly common to think that way – I assume so at least as it’s what I’m doing as well 🙂

You’re ahead of me in terms of where you are as you know you deserve more – I still don’t see the point and think she’s perfect for me.

It can be very hard to deal with the loss of anything and this is certainly one of those things so don’t feel like you’re in the wrong for feeling sad – accept that it’s horrible and try and find other positives to spin whilst you heal