Hi Gia

What is this comment about being Asian and having english with grammatical errors, eh ? This is a huge generalisation and it is not fair on those asians who do have good written english. Think about this as it has a hidden message. Please do not feel that I am taking this personally as I am not :). I see myself as a beautiful earthling having a great human experience but I do know that these words could unnecessarily hurt some who attach their identity to the “labels” that come with this birth.

Secondly, there is no point crying over split milk. He is gone and let him stay wherever he is happy. You did what was best for you. He did what was good for him. Can we move forward in life and hope that if you two are meant to meet, you both will at some point ?

When we chase things or people beyond their capacity, they often run away even faster. Let it be and focus on studies. You have a long life ahead of you. Do not fill it up with regrets. Show some kindness to yourself and people around you. Things are not meant to be hard in this life. Why are you making it so difficult for yourself ?

May you get the courage to do what is best for Gia’s overall well being. Best wishes,

Jasmine