Hi CJ,

This is my first time posting. I am hardly qualified to give any advice , having never faced anything like this.

I just would like to say – it doesn’t sound like your head that says no, it is still your heart that worries for the quality of life for the other people around you. So really, it sounds like a battle between the various pieces of your heart and the people who hold them. And yes, definitely, the quality of life, love and care also matters a LOT so it is not an easy decision that you are facing.

No matter what you decide, I only hope that a loving wife and mom like you would also remember to care for yourself.

I wish you and your family all the very best