Hi Kadi

I am so glad you have such a balanced and evolved friend. I agree 100 % with the advice that your friend has offered you.

Hey, we cant live someone else’s life or influence them to live a life that they do not wish to live. We are just not wired that way. We all have choices and desires and we all fulfill them depending on how impt they are to us. But we do fulfill them in some way. If we dont, we start to develop all sorts of mental, emotional or physical issues. And who wants to be sick ?

So the simple answer to your question is: You be YOU and let him be HIM. Let him know that he has the freedom to do whatever he needs to do to be a happy bloke. Trust me, this will help to bring another level of security into your LD relationship. Try to enjoy your time engaging in activities that make you happy and pls stay away from insecurities and “what if” scenarios. When we think too much about something, we give birth to the situation in real life sooner or later and wah lah, then it is too late for regrets….and we give it a name of “see I told you”, “my gut has been telling me this all along” etc.

Enjoy hanging out with your lovely friend and BF – you are blessed 🙂

Blessings,

J