hi;
your answer is deep and kind and more helpful, but it’s funny it gives me hope in the other person, i want help him to save himslef but i’m healing from my childhood experience too, and i finally realise that i don’t need all that, but a part of me still want help him !
by the way this statement “How I got treated wasn’t really even about me. It could’ve been someone else in my position, and they would’ve gotten the same treatment. Sure, the hurtful comments are always personal, as otherwise they wouldn’t be hurtful, but the reason behind the comments wasn’t me, but the other person’s inability to handle their own pain and hurt” is comforting and so true :))
thank you for your kindness love !