Hi TinyZebra,
Instead of thinking that the Universe is against you, why not try thinking that the Universe is on your side so much that it won’t let someone who’s “Not There” have you! Pretend the Universe is your best friend, your champion, your strongest supporter.
Flip the script on your relationships. You were lucky in love two or three times (even if only in the beginning). They ended (or ended badly) because you are gearing up for the One Great Love. You manifested love before? You will manifest love again (only better and longer lasting!)
And think of this: Scientists (and mystics!) say that Time is One. Everything is actually happening all at once on some mathematical (or mystical!) level. So your Great Love is already here. Believe it! Act it! *Be happy anyway!*
Think of this last guy as picking up on the Energy that you belong to someone else. (You do, you just haven’t met him yet!) Think of it that way.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 