Hey Inky. Agree with your suggestions.

Hey Iskimbalahemhem

I would just focus on the last 2 actions of MY GOAL with minor modifications – to provide for the kids and to parent the kids (don’t expect someone else to do in return for something else – we are not running a child business here, are we ?). Unfortunately, teaching someone else a lesson doesn’t work very nicely in this world. We may like to believe that someone has been taught a lesson but in reality, it doesnt occur. Everyone is on their own journey and we should mind our own business and enjoy our journey. If you cant be nice to her, do not be nasty to her – after all she is the mother of your 3 darling kids 🙂

Do what makes you happy and is good for your kids.

Blessings,

Jasmine