Home→Forums→Relationships→A unique yet ancient circumstance→Reply To: A unique yet ancient circumstance
Multiple as in three people together? Or multiple as in 2 girlfriends, 1 at a time?
In the ancient world, only sultans, warrior chiefs, and kings could get away with having more than one wife or having many concubines. And look what happened to Father Abraham! The patriarch of three world religions, and he couldn’t keep his women in line! Nor could his grandchild, Jacob/Israel. King David? Troubles. Solomon? Maybe. But he had the “Wisdom of Solomon”. Spoilers? The royal family all goes downhill for a while.
You’re just a normal guy. It’s fun and natural to seek all these women, be all that!
Women? We may *pretend* to be cool with it, to be evolved. If we are above it all, it casts a thin veneer of “I am the Head Wife, the Dominant Female”. Because if we admit we aren’t cool with it, we are “Jealous” which is the most Unevolved Thing You Can Be! Insecure? Not me!
But do you know what we women truly want? To be Cherished. To be The One and Only. To be The Princess. No, scratch that. To be The Queen.
And sometimes, Friend, she will unwittingly take after our ancient forefathers ~ only she will have hidden princes you don’t know about, until finally she picks one King (worldly or unworldly) that you do know about.
So no, I don’t understand this kind of commitment, (although it sound fun!) but I had to add ALL my thoughts!!! 🙂
Good Luck!