Heya Lucy,

First off, it sounds like you’ve had a tough 6 years, so be nice to yourself, take the time to do the things you love by yourself… reading, swimming, singing, yoga, running… whatever it may be, make sure you do it!. You’re allowed to have a crush on someone, it’s human instinct. So don’t beat yourself up, it’s not like you were in a happy marriage. secondly, if you’re not happy, you have the power to change it. Look after yourself first. Maybe get some distance from both guys? find yourself and your feet again, and if the guy likes you as much as you like him, he’ll still be there 🙂

xxxx good luck and all the best! xx