Hi (My first post! 😀 )

I think you are being a bit too sensitive. It sounds like he is trying to build you up, but you may see the fact that he says it in a dominant tone as negative. I personally think it is just his way of helping, some people are just brash with how they approach things….calling you a looser and acting inconsiderate of your dreams is just him getting his point across without thinking how it may be perceived.

He seems to think that you might regret what you want to do later when the novelty of it has worn off and what you do for a living is not the most important thing anymore, instead family life, having good opportunities to move on and having some money to be comfortable may take precedence.

Whether you should do sports therapy is up to you, but ignore him calling you a looser and saying things like “living in a shit are wont seem so clever”…instead focus on that one phrase that really stood out to me “you have every chance and capability to pull yourself up so much higher”….that sounds like a pretty caring guy to me, even if he puts his foot in his mouth 😉

all the best.