At this point let him contact you. Let him do all the work. If he calls you and then goes on and on about not feeling the same, say, “I don’t buy it/So why are you calling me/It sounds like you’re trying to convince yourself, not me. Gotta go, Little Buddy!”
In the meantime see other people.
Start thinking and referring to him as your Fan Club. Flip the script, even if it’s in your own mind.
When he calls again and wants to get together, say, “I don’t think that’s a good idea.” He blew it last time, after all! Maybe a year later you can meet ~ for coffee, and coffee only.
The best part is when you really have moved on, he calls out of the blue, and your BF picks up the phone and calls, “Honey! It’s the President of your Fan Club!… Yeah… That guy… *laughs*” 😉
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