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Okay, I need some advice. Again lol. The past decade, some of my family members have not treated my mother well. Just today, I was sending a FB message to my sister explaining to her how I didn’t like my mother being treated this way. Generally, there’s a double standard apparently, on how each parent is treated. My Mom’s side of the story? They’ll treat Dad as if he’s the greatest father in the world when he’s not. I can’t even deal with him now because I have issues with a bill. Long story short, he’s giving me the run around. Just like he always does.
Have you ever wanted to just…stop drama entirely in your family, whether you were part of it or not? Everyone in my family needs to get over this divorce. My parents divorced a long time ago when I was nine years old. There was a time I wanted them together, but now I like that they’re separate. All they did was argue. My sister even had the nerve to say, “Oh you’re getting the facts wrong. I treat each parent equally.” Yea, doesn’t seem like it. I’m not worried about them beiyng on this site. My sisters are too preoccupied with their own lives to help others. Sometimes, I just want to scream. I could never bring anyone over my house. There is all of this petty drama that just can’t be let go. When I say drama, I mean, people want to play the blame game, no one wants to take responsibility, and everyone wants to do what THEY want to do. Doesn’t matter if it inconveniences others. Sometimes, it’s about me. Having an intellectual disability, they all claim on what’s best for me. Mom has been my biggest advocate. She probably always will be until she dies on her deathbed. Not that I would want that to happen. She’s the best. But now I’m doing the advocating for myself as well.
Advice is genuinely appreciated. Live, laugh, love.