Hello Blaice,

After reading this post and your previous ones, it seems to me as if you are idealizing love and aren’t quite able to accept that other people are different from you. There are also some discrepancies, which would suggest that you might be idealizing yourself as well. None of that bodes well for healthy relationships. Unfortunately you might not see that, but see the problems in the surroundings; if only other people would change, then things would be better.

Perhaps you are shielding your sensitive self, but by doing that, you’re denying it real love and real experiences. The illusion can never be as good as the real thing. Allow your soul the possibility to breathe and to be authentic.