You are the perfect guy that all the girls fantasize about, but ~ they can’t see it because they don’t expect it! Another thought ~ they’ve spent two decades indoctrinated that a guy is only about sex, so when you don’t chase them that way, they think something is lacking in *them*! Or, at worst, that you like guys. So they are all anxious to get that off the table.

Yeah social media and our culture has really done a number on us. The best you can do is find a girl who grew up in the church as you did and is used to traditional guys. Or for spiritual girls, go to MeetUp.com and find Buddhist discussions or meditation groups to go to. Believe it or not, there is another type of girl out there ~ spiritual, intellectual, communicating. Good Luck!