Hi Blaice,
You already have awesome advice above. It’s good of you to seek this advice – and to grow from your experiences.
The word that comes to mind is compassion, for yourself and other folks who are different and/or sorting through things themselves.
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Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 