Thanks Madera.

I have always wondered that how do you know someone’s righteous nature without living with them and sharing every experience with them and this could sometimes take a lifetime ? I am still trying to figure myself out after so many years on this planet. Don’t people change all the time ? Doesn’t everyone make a mistake at some point of their lives ?

A criminal may have a change of heart with wisdom and a very nice person may change for the worst depending on circumstances. I have not been able to ascertain the nature of anyone in my life so far. Perhaps, you can share some of your wisdom, which can help all of us to figure out the nature of people or their sins before having sex or getting married :).

And whenever I look around nowadays, I only see beauty and people who are trying their best to move on in their lives with whatever resources they have been given. With the right guidance and love, I feel anyone can turn around for the better. And perhaps, that right guidance and love is missing in some parts of our society where marriages seem to have problems. What does sex before marriage or sex at any time have to do it with that or human nature or sins ? I somehow cant seem to see the connection. Please enlighten me.

Jasmine