I literally used a Banishing Spell off the Internet. I think I was so ready for it to “Work”, that it happened. Basically I put in, “I release this which no longer serves me.” The Ritual of it all made it happen.

Yes, and as you can see, writing it all down in the form of a fairy tale helps put the archetypes where they belong in your subconscious! I see your ex as a Trickster character, Ex GF as a Siren, you are a princess, DH is an unrecognized prince, etc.