No, what happens is people ask about her. Since I have made the family busy, I truthfully shrug my shoulders and ask them if they’ve heard from her. Some people know the scene, but she is not a threat, she’s a wanna-be threat, and a little wacky, so is not taken that seriously.

She herself was always, “Are you mad at me?”

Me: “No, not at all. Bean dip?”

Or she’d try desperately to make digs at me. I would ignore, and wouldn’t confront, which drove her crazy.

Finally she yelled, “I AM NOT AFTER YOUR HUSBAND!!”

I just stared at her and lifted my eyebrows and said nothing. I let it hang. I had said nothing over the years to jibs and jabs, and was always cordial. I would never give her the satisfaction of knowing that she ever “got” to me, or that I thought she was a threat.

Hope that helps!!