My post was directed at the OP and the general idea behind creating a “sticky” FAQ type of thread. There is an undercurrent of dismissiveness in the idea that people’s posts are too similar and the advice given is always the same, and so it’s not fun anymore for those who seek something else. Instead of looking at the situation with compassion and understanding, it was treated with an engineering approach of “how about we save everyone’s time and give the answers before anyone even asks”. But that is missing the point of why people post and why they reach out.

I know that it’s very common in all forums; the regulars get bored because the incoming posts and questions are always so similar. People asking the same questions over and over again. Some will stop seeing the people behind the posts and simply see the questions. From that perspective, it makes sense to give the answers beforehand, so that nobody has to ask and they’ll gain from the wisdom of others. On another type of forum that dealt with something that was more information specific, that might work. But this is clearly a different kind of place where a lot of people come after searching for help and answers to the questions like “why does it hurt so much” and “how can I move on”. They need someone to hold their hand for a moment, to listen and to understand. It is not beneficial to them to be first told that “before you post, you should read this”. It is not a compassionate and welcoming approach, however well meant it would be.

You can make lists and you can post your personal experiences for what ever personal reason, be that catharsis or simply the desire to share your gained knowledge. I’m sure those are beneficial. I am calling out the dismissive attitude, not the content of the lists.