Inky,

Is this the same friend that did date your husband? Or is that two women that have yelled “I’m not after your husband”?

You don’t seem that big on forgiveness, turning the other cheek. More like “turn your back”, shut out, shut down. Authentic forgiveness, such as seeing people spin, act foolishly, and empathizing how difficult life and balance is for us all removes the dread that accompanies prideful judgment. The dread arises from cold heartedness, battle mode, casting aside the people that dare transgress against us, seeing them as lower, lesser. Said differently, perhaps when the FB block happened, it smacked Inky in such a way her mind grabbed it, now cycles around it, producing all sorts of illusions, thoughts, feelings. Deep forgiveness, whoa-ho, freedom!

With warmth,
Matt