Inky,

Ah, must be mixing stories. Yes, the role of forgiveness is often overlooked… consider that when we rest comfortably in a forgiveness for other people unskillful qualities, there’s no blip. Why stress over a butterfly flapping, the wind blowing. There’s simply no threat, no reason to grab her actions at all.

There may be some latent “overcaring about what people think”, such as what if she says this or that, claims this or that in public. To that I say trust your numinous light, for the love you are known to share will make her ploys obvious, laughable, to anyone that matters. The old saying “those that matter don’t mind, and those that mind don’t matter.” Loving beings will see the difference, and those that don’t, well what does that matter? They have bigger problems. No need to bring out the sword, stab a sister in the heart… yep, she’s a fool like the rest of us. 🙂

With warmth,
Matt